R: Rational Feeler

I listened to another podcast today and one thing that caught me was the notion of analytical feeler or rational feeler. Rational feelers are people who will suffer the most if there is pain.

It’s people who feels things very deeply but are also objective about it. It’s like a contradiction. I feel things very deeply but I am also very rational.

The rabbit hole that this people go through is “I’m in so much emotional pain right now but let’s be objective, it’s not that bad”. “This is just little, brush it away or man up”

I was one of those people.

But now, I’m learning to feel the pain and move through it instead which is a long term fix.